About Start With You

A leadership coaching and development practice in Dubai, built on one idea: lasting change starts with you.

Founded by leadership coach Ursula Crilly, Start With You works with business owners, executives, managers and whole teams across the UAE. We help people understand what drives them, lead with clarity under pressure, and build workplaces where others grow too.

Ursula Crilly coaching a client one to one in Dubai
We work withIndividuals, teams & organisations
Official SDI Partner – Crucial LearningOfficial SDI PartnerCrucial Learning
  • 20+ yearsof leadership experience
  • Official SDI PartnerCrucial Learning
  • One to one to whole teamscoaching, training and team profiling
  • JLT, Dubaiin person across the UAE or online
Ursula Crilly, leadership coach, smiling at her desk
Since day oneCoaching over command. Growth over quick fixes.

— Our story

Who we are

With continued industry convergence, evolving workplaces, shifting employee expectations and the growing need for skills acceleration, developing people has become a strategic imperative. Individuals and organisations that prioritise growth are better equipped to thrive in today’s volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous environment.

As organisations navigate this changing landscape, so do their people. Today’s professionals seek guidance over authority: they value coaching over command, clear expectations, accountability, meaningful purpose, and continuous feedback and development.

Start With You exists to give business owners, leaders and individuals at every level the insight, clarity and tools to grow themselves and their people, driving success not only in business, but in life.

Who we work with

  • Business owners & founders
  • Executives & senior leaders
  • Managers stepping up
  • Leadership teams
  • HR & people leaders
  • Professionals in transition

— Why we exist

Our mission and vision

01

Our mission

To empower individuals, leaders and organisations to unlock their full potential through meaningful coaching, clear direction and continuous development, enabling lasting success in both business and life.

02

Our vision

To create a world where people feel inspired, supported and equipped to grow: where leadership is driven by purpose, workplaces foster development, and individuals thrive with clarity and confidence.

— How we work

Coaching that starts with what drives you

Most leadership development stops at behaviour: what you did, and what you should do instead. That change rarely lasts, because behaviour is the symptom, not the source.

Our work starts a layer deeper, with motive. Using the Strength Deployment Inventory® (SDI®) assessment, we map what genuinely drives each person when things go well, and how that shifts through three predictable stages of conflict. Once you can see your own pattern, you can choose your response instead of discovering it afterwards.

See how we use the SDI® assessment

01

People

Motivated by protecting, supporting and growing others.

02

Performance

Motivated by results, pace and clear ownership.

03

Process

Motivated by structure, accuracy and fairness.

Every person blends all three. Our coaching, training and team programmes all work on that blend, including what happens to it under pressure.

— Why it matters

Why leadership development matters

Leadership shapes how people feel, how they perform and whether they stay. Investing in leaders is one of the clearest ways to invest in everyone around them.

67%

Employee productivity depends on leadership

87%

Companies prioritise leadership development

70%

Engagement is driven by leadership quality

58%

Managers lack formal leadership training

Ursula Crilly, founder of Start With You

— Meet the founder

Ursula Crilly

Leadership development coach and SDI® certified facilitator

Ursula founded Start With You after more than 20 years alongside leaders in airlines, global organisations and fast-moving corporate teams. She coaches every client herself, combining proven leadership frameworks with emotional intelligence and the SDI® assessment.

  • 20+ years developing leaders
  • Certified Transformation Coach
  • SDI® certified facilitator
  • Official SDI Partner

Let’s start with you

Tell us where you are and what you want to change. Ursula will reply personally with an honest view of the right next step.